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Name (or LJ Username): Renee--bride-to-be (Wow! I am still in shock writing that)
Partner's name: Qais groom-to-be
Age: I am 36, he is 26
What country are you from: USA
What country is your partner from: Afghanistan
Who's going where (immigration wise): He is coming here.
Anticipated Wedding Date: We haven't set a date yet. He just proposed this past Sunday!

What's your story?

I went back to school for social work. I wasn't expecting to meet anyone and I was thinking that I was just going to concentrate on my studies and not date. Then I met Qais! He is the kindest, most generous, most loving man I have ever met. He is on a Fulbright scholarship to Ball State University in journalism. He is scared to go back home because his best friend Parwez Kambakhsh, who is also a journalist is in prison for standing up for women's rights! There was a time when authorities were coming after him as well, right before he came to Ball State University. His safety is the utmost importance to me, needless to say.

Any way, we met at a Ramadan event back in September. I found him to be funny, charming and very handsome. We started dating soon afterward and have been absolutely inseparable ever since. I sure hope that we can be together here in the US because it wouldn't be safe for us to go to Afghanistan. We'd live in constant fear of me being kidnapped or worse, or him being imprisoned by the religious crazies or worse. We also would not want our children to live in such terror either.

We both would love to see a happy, prosperous, peaceful Afghanistan. That is our dream.

I love Qais so much. I want him to be happy. He's been through so much growing up. He grew up in a war zone. He's seen people killed right before his eyes. When he was ten years old his father took him to the battleground with him in a tank. His father sat little Qais on top of the tank and enemies started to shoot at him! He also helped out with picking up dead bodies from the field. I just can't imagine seeing all that as a small child!

I just want us to have a happy life together because I love him more than I've loved anyone in my life. He is the most gentle, kindest, sweetest man I've ever met and I never want to lose him.
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From:co_techie
Date:May 28th, 2009 01:11 am (UTC)
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Welcome! :)
From:lijepanena
Date:May 28th, 2009 01:33 am (UTC)
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=) Thank you!!!!!
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From:flyslip
Date:May 28th, 2009 02:16 am (UTC)
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Welcome!

I, too, married a younger man (I'm 36, he's 28). I'm so happy for you, and hope all goes well. Here's to your enduring happiness!
From:lijepanena
Date:May 28th, 2009 03:35 am (UTC)
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I love hearing from other women who married younger men!!! =) Thank you so much!
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From:Olivia Ken
Date:March 26th, 2014 09:42 am (UTC)
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HOW I SAVE MY MARRIAGE FROM A REAL SPELL CASTER
My Name is Gregory. I will love to share my testimony to all the people in the forum cos i never thought i will have my girlfriend back and she means so much to me..The girl i want to get marry to left me 4 weeks to our wedding for another man..,When i called her she never picked my calls,She deleted me on her facebook and she changed her facebook status from married to Single...when i went to her to her place of work she told her boss she never want to see me..I lost my job as a result of this cos i cant get myself anymore,my life was upside down and everything did not go smooth with my life...I tried all i could do to have her back to all did not work out until i met a Man when i Travel to Africa to execute some business have been developing some years back..I told him my problem and all have passed through in getting her back and how i lost my job...he told me he gonna help me...i don't believe that in the first place.but he swore he will help me out and he told me the reason why my girlfriend left me and also told me some hidden secrets.i was amazed when i heard that from him..he said he will cast a spell for me and i will see the results in the next couple of days..then i travel back to Us the following day and i called him when i got home and he said he's busy casting those spells and he has bought all the materials needed for the spells,he said am gonna see positive results in the next 2 days that is Thursday...My girlfriend called me at exactly 1:35pm on Thursday and apologies for all she had done ..she said,she never knew what she's doing and her sudden behavior was not intentional and she promised not to do that again.it was like am dreaming when i heard that from her and when we ended the call,i called the man and told him my wife called and he said i haven't seen anything yet... he said i will also get my job back in 3 days time..and when its Sunday,they called me at my place of work that i should resume working on Monday and they gonna compensate me for the time limit have spent at home without working..My life is back into shape,i have my girlfriend back and we are happily married now with kids and i have my job back too.This man is really powerful..if we have up to 20 people like him in the world,the world would have been a better place..he has also helped many of my friends to solve many problems and they are all happy now..Am posting this to the forum for anybody that is interested in meeting the man for help.you can mail him to goodluck05spellcaster@gmail.com I cant give out his number cos he told me he don't want to be disturbed by many people across the world..he said his email is okay and he' will replied to any emails asap..hope he helped u out too..good luck:goodluck05spellcaster@gmail.com.Once Again His Email Address Is: goodluck05spellcaster@gmail.com
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From:Olivia Ken
Date:March 26th, 2014 09:43 am (UTC)
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HOW I SAVE MY MARRIAGE FROM A REAL SPELL CASTER
My Name is Olivia ken. I will love to share my testimony to all the people in the forum cos i never thought i will have my girlfriend back and she means so much to me..The girl i want to get marry to left me 4 weeks to our wedding for another man..,When i called her she never picked my calls,She deleted me on her facebook and she changed her facebook status from married to Single...when i went to her to her place of work she told her boss she never want to see me..I lost my job as a result of this cos i cant get myself anymore,my life was upside down and everything did not go smooth with my life...I tried all i could do to have her back to all did not work out until i met a Man when i Travel to Africa to execute some business have been developing some years back..I told him my problem and all have passed through in getting her back and how i lost my job...he told me he gonna help me...i don't believe that in the first place.but he swore he will help me out and he told me the reason why my girlfriend left me and also told me some hidden secrets.i was amazed when i heard that from him..he said he will cast a spell for me and i will see the results in the next couple of days..then i travel back to Us the following day and i called him when i got home and he said he's busy casting those spells and he has bought all the materials needed for the spells,he said am gonna see positive results in the next 2 days that is Thursday...My girlfriend called me at exactly 1:35pm on Thursday and apologies for all she had done ..she said,she never knew what she's doing and her sudden behavior was not intentional and she promised not to do that again.it was like am dreaming when i heard that from her and when we ended the call,i called the man and told him my wife called and he said i haven't seen anything yet... he said i will also get my job back in 3 days time..and when its Sunday,they called me at my place of work that i should resume working on Monday and they gonna compensate me for the time limit have spent at home without working..My life is back into shape,i have my girlfriend back and we are happily married now with kids and i have my job back too.This man is really powerful..if we have up to 20 people like him in the world,the world would have been a better place..he has also helped many of my friends to solve many problems and they are all happy now..Am posting this to the forum for anybody that is interested in meeting the man for help.you can mail him to goodluck05spellcaster@gmail.com I cant give out his number cos he told me he don't want to be disturbed by many people across the world..he said his email is okay and he' will replied to any emails asap..hope he helped u out too..good luck:goodluck05spellcaster@gmail.com.Once Again His Email Address Is: goodluck05spellcaster@gmail.com
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